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My friend Jackie recently confided in me that she was pretending to own a designer bag. As soon as I heard about it, I stopped in my tracks. The thought of my friend pretending to have an expensive item she couldn’t afford left a sour taste in my mouth. Jackie told me she bought a fake designer bag, and was pretending to her friends that it was real.
I couldn’t understand how she could discourage and surprise me like that. Jackie had always had the latest trends and the most expensive purses, so it made sense for her to act like she owned a designer bag. But what I couldn’t wrap around my head was why she was doing it without having the funds to back it up. I asked her why she was pretending to have a designer bag and burberry bags replica china she said it was “all in fun.”
It bothered me to see Jackie pretending to have something she couldn’t enjoy in real life. She wasn’t getting the same experience as the people who Really owned designer bags because hers wasn’t real. It was a balenciaga replica bag of what real people were able to have, but for some reason it wasn’t enough. Jackie knew deep down it wasn’t real, but she continued to lie to her friends.
I felt like Jackie was a fraud in a way. Here she was trying to make it seem like she could afford something that she wasn’t able to and this rubbed me the wrong way. I asked her why she didn’t just purchase a nice purse with her funds, but she just shrugged her shoulders and said she wanted something different. I tried to express to Jackie how I felt like she was lying to her friends and she looked away embarrassed.
The topic made me feel uncomfortable. I wanted Jackie to stop lying to her friends and start owning up to her financial situation. I tried to get her to open up but she was still pretending and wasn’t honest with the life she was living. She was still in her own world that revolved around the fake bag.
I was confused on why Jackie was doing this. But after sitting with her and louis vittn zeal replica bags reviews bags in palm desert listening to her, I realized it wasn’t just about the bag or pretending. Jackie was feeling like she couldn’t keep up with her friends, and zeal replica bags reviews this was a way for her to feel like she wasn’t left out. She didn’t want to feel the pressure of being the only one without a designer bag.
I could see why she was doing it, but I still didn’t agree with her decions. I wanted her to be honest about her finances and gain confidence in herself. I thought that by lying, she was taking away from the real designer bags that those who can afford them should be able to live and appreciate.
I tried to explain to her that she needed to realize it was okay not to be able to afford something, but she still insisted on holding onto the lie. She felt like she was fitting in and hermes birkin bag replica it was empowering her in a way. So to help her out, I ended up offering to buy her a real designer bag, but she still wouldn’t budge.
Jackie was really set on her lie and I’m still struggling to understand hermes bags zeal replica bags reviews philippines why she wants to keep up the act. I can tell she likes the attention she’s getting from her fake designer bag and best superfake handbags I know that it’s really hard for her to come clean about what she’s done. I just want her to realize how her behavior is affecting her and gucci soho disco shoulder bag replica that she should take pride in herself no matter her financial situation.
At the end of the day, I just want to see Jackie embrace the real Jackie. Not the one that has to pretend to have a designer bag.